We are all aware of the cultural and social issues that are part and parcel of being such an ethnically diversified country. Over the years, we have seen more and more traditions from different ethnic cultures become interwoven with our national culture. But nowhere has the effect of being ethnically diverse been as greatly felt as in the growing number of intercultural and interracial marriages.

This increase in intermarriage has taken its toll on the wedding industry itself. Couples from different ethnic/racial backgrounds no longer have to settle for a wedding bell or a dove to grace the top of their wedding cake. Now they can have a miniature bride and groom sit atop the cake that looks just like them.

Costa Mesa, California-based Weddingate.com is one of the companies on the cutting edge of this trend in cake toppers. They feature the Renellie International Classic Collection that is comprised of eight different interchangeable figures. The collection includes African American, Asian, Caucasian and Latino brides and grooms. The figures are 7" high and extremely detailed. Partners can be individually matched and securely mounted to the base that is included with your order. You can purchase them online at www.weddingate.com or call toll free at 800-716-8677.

Melting Pot Gifts located in Trenton, New Jersey, started in 2002 selling multiracial greeting cards. The company has since expanded its product line, and it currently offers its own line of mix-and-match cake toppers. They too, have African American, Asian, Caucasian and Latino brides and grooms. However, they have three collections with couples in different poses: The Rose Collection in which brides and grooms are dancing, The Star Collection featuring dancing couples with more detailing and The Ren Collection in which the couple stand facing front. The figures range in height between 5 ½ to 7 inches, depending on the collection. You can order online at www.meltingpotgifts.com.

If you really want to have your image mirrored in your cake topper, contact Cherry Valley, New York-based Plaide Palette. They work from actual pictures of the couple as well as pictures of the clothing you will be wearing to create a truly customized ornament for your cake. They not only create a personalized image of the couple, they can also add other elements to the topper like animals, flowers etc. for an additional fee. Their web site www.plaidepalette.com, has a detailed questionnaire that the couple must complete in addition to sending pictures. You can order online or you can call 607-264-3769.