Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue
Catherine Siroka
Whether you're of Eastern European, African, Chinese, Japanese, Dutch, or
Irish heritage, or a combination of many backgrounds, if you're looking to
incorporate tradition into your wedding look, brides today have more options
than ever before.
While some religions like are very strict when it comes to bridal wear, you
can still bend the rules and honor tradition. All it takes is a little
creativity…and research. For example, when Tina, a recent bride from Norway
living in New York, decided to find a headpiece, she went with the traditional
herb wreath but wore a modern up do. Michelle, a Chinese bride, decided to add a
modern spin to her wedding by wearing red and gold crystal hairpins to match her
ceremonial red bridal dress.
"I knew I wanted to incorporate the colors from the tartan kilt my fiancé was
wearing," said Jennifer, a Scottish bride, "so I used blue and green flowers
along with those colors in my tiara." Catherine, a Spanish bride, wanted to
remember her heritage by wearing a tiara with colored stones to match the
embroidery to her Flamenco-style gown. "I wanted a different twist on the white
dress and veil thing."
If you're looking for inspiration, first try looking at old wedding
photographs of grandparents and great grandparents and think of ways to add your
personal touch. Some other ideas to jump-start your creativity:
Use traditional colors or patterns in non-traditional ways, like using
flowers or colored stones in your headpiece or tiara. Use accents of jade if
want to include some green, or rose quartz to capture the look of cherry
blossoms, or tanzanite stones to capture the look of African violets.
Look at old magazines from your grandparent's era for beading and accessory
ideas. Add Art Deco beading to your tiara or the front of your dress, and match
it with an antique beaded handbag from a flea market or beaded shoe clips.
The point is to have fun mixing the old with new, and create your own
tradition. Think of your wedding look as a marriage between the past with the
present. Someday, a woman will look at your picture and try to capture her
grandmother's look.
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